Asking as part of deep submission - by SIR T ROSS

When a woman submits to her HOH, the first thing she must get used to is to ask Him. Ask Him if she can or if she can´t do such things, if she must or not do things. Asking becomes instantly part of the submissive woman in order to please her HOH. Basically everything must be asked permission: "May I see some TV now, Sir?" May I go to my friends house for a coffee, Sir?", "Do I have permission to buy a new outfit, Sir?” The woman who wants to increase her submission to her HOH will never ask if He wants to eat His favorite food for dinner. She just fixes it as a surprise to please Him. She won´t ask Him if she´s allowed getting sexier in bed, she just do it to increase His sexual pleasure.

There are specific requests a submissive woman should pay special attention to and that´s the important matter here. Important for her, important for Him and important for the relationship. At least once a month the submissive wife must request for extra punishment. Ok, she behaved well; she is in the right track, not stubborn or talking back, and a real lady. But for the woman it is important to have this possibility of asking for extra punishment. She may have done something her HOH would not approve and He still does not know about. She may have had thoughts she shouldn´t. When the submissive woman asks for punishment, she is asking her HOH to help her keep on the good mood, she is telling Him how much she respects, loves and trusts Him and how weak she can be. When she asks for punishment, she is signing him she wants to deep her submission to him. Every time she asks for extra punishment, it means she wants to be more His and less hers. And that´s good news. The more His she becomes, easier to be controlled and to be guided she gets. The submissive woman must find ways to tell her HOH she is deeply compromised with her submission to Him and asking for punishment is the most effective way to do so.

There´s a kind of ritual to do that. The submissive woman must communicate to her HOH she has something to ask. He will say that He will call her when He finds it´s the better time to do it. When He does, she must be naked and kneel in front of Him, spread legs and hands above her head, like in a corner time position. She must communicate Him her will in a few words, must confess her regrets and must wait for His decision. HOH will set time and place to punishment happens (or not, it´s His will after all). She will thank Him for listening to her needs and ask for this mission.

Asking for punishment must be a rule established since the beginning of DD lifestyle and may be used more than once a month. The important is that the submissive woman gets what she deserves (or on her judgment she thinks she deserves) to become a better person and a more submissive wife. Please leave your comments bellow. Your opinion even if you desagree with it is very important for us to build a better DD Lifestyle concept around the world.